Your goal, as a negotiator, is to come to an agreement that can be implemented, and make sure that happens.

“Yes” is nothing without “how”. Ex: Success isn’t the hostage-taker saying, “Yes, we have a deal”; success comes afterward, when the freed hostage says to your face, “Thank you”. –Never split the difference, p.163 Continue reading Your goal, as a negotiator, is to come to an agreement that can be implemented, and make sure that happens.

Trust your instincts

Do not be slave to them, but when your instincts are screaming, Go! Go! Go! then it’s time for you to decide whether you really want to be rich or not. You can’t get rich by painting numbers. You can only do it by becoming a predator, by waiting patiently, by remaining alert and constantly sniffing the airand by bringing massive, murderous force to bear upon your prey when you pounce. -How to get rich, p.122 Continue reading Trust your instincts

A committee is a cul-de-sac in which ideas are lured and quietly strangled

Of course, there is nothing wrong with robust debate, either with others or oneself. What is undesirable, however, is the pretense that any such debate can resolve the risks involved in advance. It cannot. All debate can do is clarify, support or contest the next step. The risks remain, however much talking is done. -How to get rich, p.31 Continue reading A committee is a cul-de-sac in which ideas are lured and quietly strangled