It seems unfair that your habit doesn’t deliver the results expected? Don’t worry, it’s just because your brain is lagging

You see, most animals live in an immediate-return environment. As an animal, most of your decisions have an immediate impact. You are always thinking about what to eat or where to sleep or how to avoid a predator. You are constantly focused on the present or very near future. Now switch back to your human self. In modern society, many of the choices you make today will not benefit you immediately. If you do a good job at work, you’ll get a paycheck in a few weeks. You live in what scientists call a delayed-return environment because you can work … Continue reading It seems unfair that your habit doesn’t deliver the results expected? Don’t worry, it’s just because your brain is lagging

Every new habit should take less than Two minutes

Master the habit of showing up When you dream about making a change, excitement inevitably takes over and you end up trying to do too much too soon. You’ll find that nearly any habit can be scaled down into a two-minute version: “Read before bed each night” becomes “Read one page.” “Do thirty minutes of yoga” becomes “Take out my yoga mat.” “Study for class” becomes “Open my notes.” Once you’ve started doing the right thing, it is much easier to continue doing it. A new habit should not feel like a challenge. The actions that follow can be challenging, … Continue reading Every new habit should take less than Two minutes

Create an environment where doing the right thing is as easy as possible.

[…] finding ways to reduce the friction associated with our good habits and increase the friction associated with our bad ones. There are many ways to prime your environment so it’s ready for immediate use. Want to draw more? Put your pencils, pens, notebooks, and drawing tools on top of your desk, within easy reach. Want to exercise? Set out your workout clothes, shoes, gym bag, and water bottle ahead of time. -Atomic Habits, p.155 Continue reading Create an environment where doing the right thing is as easy as possible.

How long does it take to build a new habit?

There is nothing magical about time passing with regard to habit formation. It doesn’t matter if it’s been twenty-one days or thirty days or three hundred days. You could do something twice in thirty days, or two hundred times. It’s the frequency that makes the difference. Your current habits have been internalized over the course of hundreds, if not thousands, of repetitions. New habits require the same level of frequency. -Atomic Habits, p.146 Continue reading How long does it take to build a new habit?

It’s all in the mind…

Start reframing your habits to highlight their benefits rather than their drawbacks is a fast and lightweight way to reprogram your mind and make a habit seem more attrative. Saving money is often associated with sacrifice. However you can associate it with freedom rather than limitation if you realize one simple truth: living below your current means increases your future means. -Atomic Habits, p.131 Continue reading It’s all in the mind…

How to make your habits more attractive?

Temptation bundling The strategy is to pair an action you want to do with an axction you need to do. Based on Premack’s Principle, it states that “more probable behaviors will reinforce less probable behaviors”. You can even pair it with habit stacking: After I [CURRENT HABIT], I will [HABIT I NEED]. After [HABIT I NEED], I will [HABIT I WANT]. Ex: After I get back from my lunch break, I will call three potential clients (need). After I call three potential clients, I will check ESPN (want). -Atomic Habits, p.111 Continue reading How to make your habits more attractive?

One space, one use

Stop thinking about your environment as filled with objects. Start thinking about it as filled with relationships. Think in terms of how you interact with the spaces around you. For one person, her couch is the place where she reads for an hour each night. The good news? You can train yourself to link a particular habit with a particular context. -Atomic Habits, p.87 Continue reading One space, one use